Thursday, December 16, 2010

Gramma's Vitae: The Final Years

by Michael Schulman
 

My grandmother lived to age 104.

At 70, while baking schnecken, she went to re-light the pilot in her gas oven and it backfired, singeing her eyebrows. She bought false ones.

At 80, she played 9 holes of golf every day, drove her friends to the movies (they talked about Kramer Versus Kramer for months) and baked schnecken.

At 90 she had a fall, and started a slow decline, but her overall health was still excellent. She learned to settle for store-bought schnecken.

At 95, she complained "I don't have any pep." Specialist after specialist dismissed her in frustration, finding nothing tangibly wrong with her.  Even my brother-the-Doctor gave up on trying to help.

When I visited her in God's Waiting Room (Miami Beach), I asked, "Gramma, do you think it has something to do with the fact that you're NINETY-FIVE years old?" She turned away, smiling with the defiance of a child.

At 100, two "girls" moved in with her: home-health aids (with grown children of their own) who cared for her round the clock.

Four years later, one of the women made the frantic call to my mother: "She was sitting at the table, and I was feeding her soup, and she just closed her eyes and died."

My mother called her friends, and one she knew the longest asked, "What was in the soup?"

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Michael Schulman has his grandmother's recipe for schnecken, and will take it with him to his grave. Visit him at www.manforallseasonings.com.

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